A bit like Death and Terminal illness, this is not a topic that raises its head (if you'll pardon the expression) in polite company (as far as I know).
And yet, all these topics should, in my opinion, be 'up for grabs'.
In fact I am more interested in people going than the opposite (!)!
I think we should learn to talk easily about death and dying,
with all the people who are important in our lives e.g. children, friends, family.
With adults, it would be good to share with others what we want in the event of, say, increasing decline of faculties, with children the simple truths and realities of death, which is not only more honest than euphemisms or empty promises that raise false hopes - and deprive people - young and older - of the opportunity to say goodbye, to share tears along with celebration and gratitude for the relationship.
Approach life joyfully and death graciously so that, when it's time to go, you
go well!
Ejaculation: How Often for Good Health?
Several years ago, men began showing up in my website's forum struggling to end compulsive porn use. Gradually, they worked out that a period of abstinence often helps reboot their brains. (Initially, their sexual arousal is so tightly wired to porn images and flashbacks that foregoing orgasm for a time can speed re-wiring and stave off binges.)
Discussions naturally arose about whether frequent ejaculation is needed for health reasons. Surprisingly, there is no consensus on the answer. There is, however, a wide gap between popular lore and the views of most reproductive health experts.
Interestingly, men who cut back often remark on changes: more energy, better concentration, interacting with potential mates more easily, greater gains from workouts, stronger erections, healthy dietary changes, return to earlier sexual tastes, more optimism, seeing women differently—even deeper voices. As with other aspects of life, it seems that finding a middle ground pays. Yet when it comes to ejaculation, few people are talking about what might constitute a healthy middle ground.
Read more at www.psychologytoday.com
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